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noooo pumpkin spice, get away!! it pushes out my beloved peach iced tea. stupid fall ;)

Funnily enough my barista said the same thing as I admitted to him that I basically wait all year for PSL to come back! It feels a little wrong drinking it when it’s 90 degrees out, but I’m gonna embrace the pumpkin for as long as I can until it leaves me again 


well if that’s not just the sweetest thing anyone has ever to me 

Asker only-1-a Asks:
1, 17, 23, 63
bubblelounge bubblelounge Said:

1: do you have a crush at the moment?

I do! I suppose I have quite the crush on my bf :)

17. do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?

Of course. I think plenty of people fall for one another online. I think it could be a challenge to transition from online to “in person” but I absolutely know that people can build very powerful relationships online. 

23: how many relationships have you had?

I’ve had two long-term relationships (including my current, one year, woohoo!), and a handful of short-term (1-6 months). 

63. is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?

I don’t think so, no. I don’t mind (and can even enjoy watching with my partner) so long as it doesn’t detract from the sex I’m having with said partner. 

Asker grimelius Asks:
bubblelounge bubblelounge Said:

45. Could you imagine dating one of your current friends?

Well, existing boyfriend not withstanding, no. Wait. I take that back. Yes, there is one person, though I don’t think we’d actually be all that compatible in the long run….

49, 52
bubblelounge bubblelounge Said:

Sorry it took me a minute to get home and answer :)

49. Have you ever broken someone’s heart?

I don’t think so—at least not in a romantic sense. My mom liked to accuse me of breaking her heart, but that is a very different story, so as far as I am aware, I have not broken any hearts.

52: Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/ relationships?

Well, I try not to give advice…I learned (through sometimes painful trial and error) that generally what people want is validation and acceptance, rather than actual advice. I’m at that stage in life in which people think about whether or not to stay in marriages and I don’t think anyone can make that choice but the person in that marriage, so I choose to listen rather than advise, even if I am occasionally biting my tongue so hard it bleeds. But my general rule of thumb when it comes to relationships is asking the question, “does this person or persons make you happy?” and going from there. (Of course, this would all be different were I concerned about a person’s safety). So, I guess I am not so good at giving advice because I try not to give it…

  • 1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
  • 2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
  • 3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
  • 4: Have you ever changed for someone?
  • 5: How is your relationship with your ex?
  • 6: Have you ever been cheated on?
  • 7: Have you ever cheated?
  • 8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
  • 9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
  • 10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
  • 11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
  • 12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
  • 13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
  • 14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
  • 15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
  • 16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
  • 17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
  • 18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
  • 19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
  • 20: Are you currently in a relationship?
  • 21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
  • 22: Do you think people should date their friends?
  • 23: How many relationships have you had?
  • 24: Do you think love can last forever?
  • 25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
  • 26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
  • 27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
  • 28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
  • 29: What do you notice first about another person?
  • 30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
  • 31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
  • 32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
  • 33: Do you want to get married one day?
  • 34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
  • 35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
  • 36: Are you still a virgin?
  • 37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
  • 38: Do you enjoy love films?
  • 39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
  • 40: Have you ever had a valentine?
  • 41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
  • 42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
  • 43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
  • 44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
  • 45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
  • 46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
  • 47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
  • 48: What's your favorite love song?
  • 49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
  • 50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
  • 51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
  • 52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
  • 53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
  • 54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
  • 55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
  • 56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
  • 57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
  • 58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
  • 59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
  • 60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
  • 61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
  • 62: How do you define "cheating"?
  • 63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
  • 64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
  • 65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?


~A Midori-ma Sour~

Commission for bubblelounge who has excellent taste in ships and puns. 

honestly. still some of the best fandom money i ever spent :D i love this ship even if i never manage to write it….

Three years old or thirty, it is a *masterpiece*.

it’s been a really long time since i read it…(i’m always shy about reading some of my first works in case they are hella bad, not that i think my writing style has really improved super drastically, it’s in the toilet right now :P) but I am so glad to hear that nordic boy bands and references to 90’s pop have stood the test of time :D :D


I said “one of” It’s hard to beat the NeFarious ship in it’s own fic set for development XD. Ans OH GOG. I just saw that blush inducing Spamano smexy black smith crawling around in my files a few days ago 0///0

heyyyyy that was some good stuff, i was so proud! 

I think like maybe me, you, Ali, harmonde and Grimelius were the only people who ever read it but the Lurid Tales of Love in which Francois ties England to a pole, buries his sword and then goes on to have crazy nookie with Van Rijn is one of my favorite pieces of my own writing ha ha haha.

damn it, mf, you have made me nostalgic.