noooo pumpkin spice, get away!! it pushes out my beloved peach iced tea. stupid fall ;)
Funnily enough my barista said the same thing as I admitted to him that I basically wait all year for PSL to come back! It feels a little wrong drinking it when it’s 90 degrees out, but I’m gonna embrace the pumpkin for as long as I can until it leaves me again
well if that’s not just the sweetest thing anyone has ever to me
1: do you have a crush at the moment?
I do! I suppose I have quite the crush on my bf :)
17. do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?
Of course. I think plenty of people fall for one another online. I think it could be a challenge to transition from online to “in person” but I absolutely know that people can build very powerful relationships online.
23: how many relationships have you had?
I’ve had two long-term relationships (including my current, one year, woohoo!), and a handful of short-term (1-6 months).
63. is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
I don’t think so, no. I don’t mind (and can even enjoy watching with my partner) so long as it doesn’t detract from the sex I’m having with said partner.
45. Could you imagine dating one of your current friends?
Well, existing boyfriend not withstanding, no. Wait. I take that back. Yes, there is one person, though I don’t think we’d actually be all that compatible in the long run….
Sorry it took me a minute to get home and answer :)
49. Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
I don’t think so—at least not in a romantic sense. My mom liked to accuse me of breaking her heart, but that is a very different story, so as far as I am aware, I have not broken any hearts.
52: Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/ relationships?
Well, I try not to give advice…I learned (through sometimes painful trial and error) that generally what people want is validation and acceptance, rather than actual advice. I’m at that stage in life in which people think about whether or not to stay in marriages and I don’t think anyone can make that choice but the person in that marriage, so I choose to listen rather than advise, even if I am occasionally biting my tongue so hard it bleeds. But my general rule of thumb when it comes to relationships is asking the question, “does this person or persons make you happy?” and going from there. (Of course, this would all be different were I concerned about a person’s safety). So, I guess I am not so good at giving advice because I try not to give it…
Three years old or thirty, it is a *masterpiece*.
it’s been a really long time since i read it…(i’m always shy about reading some of my first works in case they are hella bad, not that i think my writing style has really improved super drastically, it’s in the toilet right now :P) but I am so glad to hear that nordic boy bands and references to 90’s pop have stood the test of time :D :D
I said “one of” It’s hard to beat the NeFarious ship in it’s own fic set for development XD. Ans OH GOG. I just saw that blush inducing Spamano smexy black smith crawling around in my files a few days ago 0///0
heyyyyy that was some good stuff, i was so proud!
I think like maybe me, you, Ali, harmonde and Grimelius were the only people who ever read it but the Lurid Tales of Love in which Francois ties England to a pole, buries his sword and then goes on to have crazy nookie with Van Rijn is one of my favorite pieces of my own writing ha ha haha.
damn it, mf, you have made me nostalgic.